© 2006 Brooke Allen
Originally published in International Family Magazine
I began trading in May of 1988. By the summer of 1990 I felt like I was ready for a change. My days were spent in the most exciting, least interesting work imaginable. At least we had some money in the bank.
Your mother and I made a decision. We would change careers.
Eve was accepted into a Ph. D. program in Marketing. I would take a Masters in education so that I might become a sixth grade teacher.
Then something happened…
One afternoon in mid-August at 2:00 PM, my boss swiveled in his chair to face me,
“Brooke, would you like to go to Japan?”
“Do you mean for a business trip?”
“No. I mean to do some work.”
“For a few weeks?”
“Nope,” he smiled, “For a few years.”
I was stunned. “That is a big decision. I have a family now and I wouldn’t spend that much time away from them. We could all move but my wife is starting graduate school.”
My boss nodded, “It is a huge decision. You must think about where the kids will go to school, what you wife will do, where you will live. I’ll tell you another thing; when you return from an overseas assignment you’ll probably have to start your career over again. Be thorough in your deliberations and consider all the alternatives. I’ll respect your decision whatever it might be. No pressure.”
“How soon do you need to know?”
“Oh… Just tell me by five.”
Wow! Three hours to decide.
So I called Eve on the telephone.
“Do you want to go to Japan?”
“Are you inviting me along on a business trip?”
“No. He wants me to go do some work.”
“For a few weeks?”
“No. A couple of years. We would all move to Tokyo.”
She was silent for a few seconds, “Gee. When does he want to know?”
“Well then, I guess we’d better discuss it now.”
We told him we would go within the hour.
If you’re going to pick the path that promises the most adventure, it helps to be married to the right woman.