By: Brooke Allen (you will find my LinkedIn profile here.)
Be aware that on LinkedIn you cannot give me a negative reference unless I approve it.
This is bad news because if it is impossible for you to say something negative, then the positive things I might allow you to say must be taken with a grain of salt.
I want you to give me a fair and balanced reference so others can have an accurate picture of who I am, and I want you to let me know what I’m doing wrong and how I can improve.
But before you give me a negative reference let us establish a few ground rules. Let’s begin with:
Motivation – Why do you want to say what you do? Why do I want to hear it?
Familiarity – How well do you know me and my work?
Rationality – Are you basing your statements on facts and valid reasoning?
Let’s analyze each in more detail…
Continue reading “How to give me a negative reference on LinkedIn”
I went to college in 1970. By 1974 I had a degree in mathematics and experience hitchhiking to every state of the union except for Alaska and Hawaii; perhaps 30,000 miles in all.
I learned more about how to live from those experiences than anything I learned in a school. Here is the story of what I learned from a man in the pick-up truck who took my girlfriend and me from central Minnesota to just west of Fargo, North Dakota.
Had I not learned this lesson my life would have been very different; not only would I have been much less inventive I would not have had the courage to stand up to some of the shenanigans I saw during the 30 years I was on Wall Street.
I’ll call him Jeb. I don’t remember his name, but during Prohibition he used to bootleg whisky, so Jeb sounds like a good bootlegger’s name, don’t you think?
He said the pay was good and it was exciting work because the cops were always chasing you, but it wasn’t very intellectual. The only creative thing he learned was the Bootlegger’s K-Turn. He left the Interstate for a side road to show us how it is done. I’ll draw it for you: Continue reading “You do not need permission to do the right thing. No one can give you permission to do the wrong thing.”